Boundary #19
Someone shared this with me when I asked, "What boundary have you set in your personal life that has made the biggest difference for you?"

I agree, and I'd actually go one step further.

I would add (by a whole f*cking lot):

> If their additions to my life don't exceed their negation (by a whole f*cking lot) they get deleted. 💥  

Seriously. They can't just cancel themselves out.

They have to bring me MORE joy than staying at home working on my hobbies, my passions or chilling with the cat, to offset the energy of scheduling, getting dressed, going out, etc. LMAO!

My definition of a successful relationship is two people getting FAR more out of the relationship than they put in. And this applies to business, friendships, love, family...whatever. ♥️